Thursday, 30 April 2020

RED FLOWER

RED..?


 When we see the red color or hear the word "blood", what is the very first thing that pops on our minds? Yes, it is the shitty period, ladies, what do we think about it is not important as long it is just a shame in their point of view. 

So let us talk more about that shitty thing or as we should say, "The flower". 

The flower:

Ladies, we are all humans, we have good and bad sides in our personalities, daily lifestyle, and daily routine. Sometimes we feel upset about our doings, we get mad a lot but it is so normal, and then what? we should keep loving ourselves and improve it to be better. 

So you can get mad about anything as long this issue is acquired but what God gave you is a giving and a blessing, do not think regret to it.

 Having a period means that you have a blessing, a flower, and a giving. It is not shaming, disgusting, or a bad thing. It is a matter of appreciation and accepting, not only by you but also by who is surrounding you, including Father, brother, friends, husband, etc..

One of them may deliver you a feeling of shame, disgust, or shit. 
And it is so normal, they do not have what you have, they do not feel what you feel and they can't deliver a baby of course.

 In our view, it may be more troublesome than its benefits, PMS, a lot of pain, a lot of hormone imbalance, yes a lot, we keep eating as if it were the last day in our life, fighting with everyone around for no reason, etc...


Let us talk about our reaction when we feel it, that "I'm on" reaction, we feel so mad, stressed, it is like, no please not now, not again and all of this stuff that we know about it, but believe me our first reaction in every time we feel it, is priceless.

After all of this, do you think it deserves to be loved, accepted, and appreciated? 
Yes, it deserves even more because it gives you a lot... Think about it, it is you, it is something in you and about you, it gives you life, rest sometimes, good times, and a baby of course which is every women's dream, it also arouses the curiosity around you.

 It is time to learn how to take care of yourself before, during, and after your flower, to love it, and accept it. Neither you nor it is ugly, you are beautiful and it is a part of you.

 Hormones imbalance:

 Hormones imbalance is a normal process during the flower (PERIOD), but it makes us upset, mad, and crazy too. If we took a closer look we can see the equation and it is quite easy, the equation is: know your needs so that you can meet your needs. 
simply, if you want to eat, go and eat if you want to cry, cry, if you want attention from a specific person, ask for it, if you want to sleep, it is clear now, you can go and sleep, but here we'll meet TWO obstacles:


 FIRST OBSTACLE: 

 which I call "THE CONTROL", what I mean by THE CONTROL OBSTACLE is that your hormones almost have control over you, and what we need is to do the opposite, which means we need to have control over the hormones and over the mood swings, 
Imagine having a mood swing and a bad hormone imbalance at your work and all you need is to sleep or maybe you need a hug, what is your reaction to this situation? will you go and sleep in the office, or you will ask your colleague for a hug? It doesn't make sense. So, that is why I'm telling you do not let it control you! It is all about choosing the right time and place, then unleash your hormones.


It is simple my ladies, ask your man to take care of you, ask your father for a warm hug, ask your friend to listen to your crazy, messy talk, it is okay and normal, do not feel stressed or bad about it. Believe me, we are all here together❤ 

 All you have to do is: 
  1. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and do not panic.
  2. Tell yourself that it is so normal and you are okay.
  3. Check on yourself, do not let it ruin your day, put your makeup on, and control yourself.
  4. Do not let your flower control you especially when you are out.
  5. Tell yourself that you are strong and worthy.
  6. Go home and sleep, eat, cry, ask for a hug from your man or dad, whatever you want.


SECOND OBSTACLE:

Now we are meeting " The limits problem". 
When you start eating and you realize that you can't stop eating, this is a problem, and of course, gaining weight which will make you stressed and insecure about your body, The "we are in trouble situation", that is why we need to put a few limits to our mood and hormones. We have to control ourselves while eating, sleeping, etc...
Of course, you don't want to lose your job because of a flower...
Do not get mad because your man is not giving you attention while he is at a meeting. So, take it easy and don't stress yourself out.
Nothing is embarrassing about it, it is natural and a bless, and remember, you are not alone❤

Tuesday, 28 April 2020

Natural beauty




Beauty means nature of the thing, when you look at the sky during the sunset or the sunrise time what do you see? BEAUTY is all you can see in the sky and everything around you, and how do you feel? You feel safe and faith, this is how you feel about it. Because of its nature and what makes nature beautiful? The answer is the nature of it. You may take a photo of this scene and it maybe makes it a bit beautiful, but in reality the nature of it is more attractive.

All I mean is that everything is beautiful by nature. To be natural is all you want to be beautiful. So, my ladies, you know now that you are so beautiful naturally, by being natural and by being YOU. It is all about you.

Wearing makeup makes you more beautiful and confident? Fine.

Wearing uncomfortable clothes makes you feel satisfied and confident? Fine.

Waking up 3hours early to get ready? Fine.

Put on your heels all day and risk it? Fine.

Spend a lot of money on makeup, clothes, nails, etc.. ? Fine.

And more than all of this, the idea of "Fine" is that you can keep doing all of these things but the difference here is about your nature, you believe that you are beautiful and sexy by nature? By being natural? That what should make you satisfied, confident, and even more attractive.

Ladies, its time to love yourself, your body, your stretch marks, your nails, your hair, your fingers, your eyes, your nose, your mouth and even your ears, its time to stop being insecure about anything, about yourself, and your shape. Love and appreciate your body, love and appreciate your details and please respect it. Wear whatever you want whatever the colors are, go out without makeup, and be confident about your beautiful, natural face, it is okay, believe me, you are worthy. You are worth being loved, accepted, appreciated, and respected.

Its also okay to have insecurities it is so normal, but don't let it control you, remember, you have the power over everything. So if you are skinny and you feel bad about this and want to do anything just to gain more weight and be more curved, let me make it clear for you, you have probably tried plenty of things and you still have not gained anything and nothing changed, you know why? Because you are not accepting who you are and what you look like by nature, you are not bad, you are beautiful and all you want to do is to be more beautiful, so let's try to do the same things after believing in ourselves and loving it, and believe me you will find a huge difference! You know why? Because it is a process if you believe in yourself your body, face, and mind will believe in you back. You will gain weight, you will be curvy, you will have clear skin and healthy face, hair, nails, and body. You will be more sexy and beautiful, because you are by your nature.
So you need surgery for bigger boobs, lips, etc.. it is okay. But you know what, you should get rid of your insecurities about them and give yourself time to love, accept and appreciate yourself, and maybe you will change your mind.
How could you think about a man who will love you, accept you, and appreciate you while you are not doing this? How is that possible? You need to start being natural and love doing this, appreciate what you have, and accept yourself and believe me you will find someone who is impressed by your nature and by who you look like and see that you are the most beautiful and sexiest girl on earth. So please ladies, be yourself, and believe me you are worth it.

 Be the best version of yourself by being you, the natural you.

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